Failure is the condition or state of not meeting an intended or desirable objective and may be viewed as the opposite of progress. The guidelines for failure depend on the context and maybe relative to the belief system or a particular observer.
Although the saying “everyone has failed” is brutally true, the percentage of people who actually succeed in life even after numerous failures is surprisingly low. The Standard Success Rate is 10 Percent.
Why? What is the reason? We will find answers in this article below.
People fail because they are scared of past failures. If you fear failure, you’re bound to fall. The fear of failure pushes us to lock ourselves in closed doors and go nowhere. We stop moving in any direction, and it forces us to do nothing in life. If you are like most people, you possess a negative mindset when it comes to life. You tell yourself over again that you will never be happy or achieve anything substantial in your life.
You tell yourself that you are not good enough, smart enough, talented enough, or pretty enough. You tell yourself all of these things and convince yourself that things will always be bad no matter what you do. This negative emotion is what causes people to fail. It prevents them from seeing or believing that they can do anything with their lives.
Quitting midway is again a reason for failure. I admit to stopping midway in life and failing numerous times. More young adults fail not because they lack talent or knowledge but because they just give up.
A lone wolf fails almost always. If you want success, build friendships, including an inner circle of about five personal and professional contacts who can give you needed support. Lack of human resources and friendships have pushed a lot of talented individuals towards failure.
Anyone who has achieved anything worthwhile has never done it without order. The order takes sacrifice, self-control, and dodging distractions and temptations. It means keeping your focus.
If you leave everything to fate and do not take responsibility, it is a recipe for failure. They surrender themselves to their fate, regardless of their struggles, that whatever has to happen will anyway happen.
If you blame others and the situation every day, you’ll fail. If you blame yourself and stop working, you will fail. Instead of blaming others or beating yourself up about mistakes, blame yourself for being human. If you blame others or beat yourself up because you have made mistakes in the past, you rob yourself of any self-confidence you/they may have once had.